Sweet Southern Buttermilk Pie Recipe
Jan 16th, 2010 by lane
Cooking is an expression of my love. Seriously. People say that homemade gifts are better, and that always sounds like an excuse, but really. For me, if I love you, I want to cook for you. And I want to think about you and what you like and what would make your day brighter or happier. I’m terrible at picking gifts. I kind of hate Christmas. Not really, but the pressure to perform overwhelms me. I don’t know what you want, and I sure as hell can’t find it when I’m trying. But cooking… well, little things stick in my head. I used to keep a notebook with my friends names in it. At Sunday dinners, I’d encourage people to write down their love and hate ingredients, and if I could remember after they left, I added the pieces I gathered.
Little things stick in my mind, and I *try* to find them and bring them forth for people. (P.S. Angela should have said she hates mushrooms. or was that Katie Layton, or both? maybe I’m not as good at the little things as I thought!)
In my raspberry buttermilk cake recipe, I wrote about my sweet friends’ love of buttermilk pie. John and Kari are amongst the dearest people in our lives, and I really strive to make things for them on occasion. Kari is a tricky one, probably cause I haven’t known her as long, and somehow, it’s intimidating cooking for women. Men seem to like it all, cause well, as a whole they’re more simple-minded ; ) Back to the story, so John and Kari introduced me to their love of buttermilk pie.
Just after Christmas, a dear friend of Cory’s passed away. I consider her his godmother, because I can’t figure a more appropriate synopsis of the relationship. Irene raised Cory, in a way, and he wouldn’t be who he is without her influence. It’s one of the most profound examples of love I’ve ever seen. After the funeral, Chester entrusted me with Irene’s recipe box. I’ve been through it and pulled all sorts of things to try, but when I saw buttermilk pie, I pulled it for Kari. Chester and Irene lovingly watched my husband every Saturday morning during his formative years. And apparently watched Johnny Carson with him some Friday nights, which I’ve definitely never seen. When I heard Kari had a chest cold today, I had to make this for her. I hope I can channel Chester and Irene and be as loving and supportive of John and Kari’s baby-to-be as they were for Cory. Yeah for babies. I’d like 50. Just kidding.

Buttermilk Pie (adapted from Irene’s friend Zelma Long’s recipe -makes 2 pies)
1 and 1/3 c. 1% milk
6 tbsp fresh squeezed lemon juice
2 and 2/3 c. sugar
4 tbsp flour
1 stick plus 3 tbsp melted butter
4 eggs
1 tsp vanilla
In a glass measuring cup, combine milk and lemon juice to make buttermilk mixture. Let stand 20 minutes.
Preheat oven to 300. In a mixer combine sugar, flour, butter, eggs, vanilla, and buttermilk mixture. Divide between two uncooked frozen pie shells. Bake 1 and one half hours at 300, then an additional 10 minutes at 325, or until center is firm.
My sweet friend Michaela brought Tabouleh to some-one’s bachelorette party. Was it mine? Was it Lisa’s? I can’t remember, they all seem to have blended together over time. In any case, I quickly decided it was one of the best things I’d ever had prepared by a friend. (Michaela is an exceptional cook, and really, I enjoy anything she creates.) I immediately began stalking her for the recipe, which of course she didn’t have. She, too, cooks in a little of this, little of that fashion. And it’s part of her heritage so she’d been making it “forever”. This at our ripe old age of 24. In any case, as happened with most things in my cooking life pre-blogging, she emailed me the recipe she came up with, and it promptly disappeared into the mist of long lost emails when I quit working and didn’t have that email address or data any longer.
Mediterranean Diets are often considered amongst the most healthy in the world and have been found to 
Happy Holidays my dear readers! I hope this season fills you with love and warmth and your kitchen feels like the happiest place in your home.
So if you made it through my holiday musings, this is the soup I created for a pre-Christmas dinner at my house. I love a soup course, and hate to serve a meal without one. We had Cream of Asparagus soup at my luncheon on my Wedding Day, and it has always held a sweet place in my heart. You hear cream of …, and I see some of you tuning out. Let me be clear – this is a predominantly asparagus and broth soup, cream is present, but it is not a cream based soup. It was very well received. I originally topped these with the tips of the asparagus, but they tended to sink. So unless you want to top your soup with a dollop of cream, they may not be the best food presentation choice.
I’m back! Sorry for the long hiatus in posting. Life has just been beyond busy, and frankly, I’ve been suffering from a lack of inspiration so I’ve been cooking many meals which I’ve already blogged. I’ve been focusing my creative juices in some other places, some worthwhile, some not so much. Anyway, I sought out a few ideas on chicken mains on facebook tonight and wound up creating these Roasted Chicken Breasts over Garlic Mashed Potatoes with Orange Chili Sauce. Kathleen mentioned orange chicken which reminded me I have way too many clementines on hand. Cory is teasing me that Crushed Red Pepper Flakes seem to be my ingredient of the year. Which is perhaps true, but they just add such a surprising depth to any recipe, it’s hard for me to hold myself back. Also, I went with the chili flavor because orange juices tend to become so sweet when cooked and I have a strong animosity toward sweet flavors and meat or poultry. It’s a personal choice, not that there’s anything wrong with a sweet sauce, it’s just not my personal favorite.
I’ve been working on the best recipe for fresh pitas for just over a month since posting the
Cold Snap! So tonight we had one of our all-time favorite comfort meals,
Fall is fleeting, and winter is closing in on us. One of my favorite things about this part of the year is most people consider it acceptable – even gratifying – to eat soup at least once a week.
This is pasta with spirit. It’s essentially a melding and blending of flavors that grab your tongue and say, “Open up! This is what it feels like to really live.” Olives seem to be a love them or hate them kind of food. I am constantly surrounded by people (including my sweet sisters and a best friend who thankfully grew out of her repulsion) who proclaim to despise olives. I love them all black, purple, green, etc. Nicoise are my favorite, but my eyes still close to fully experience the blissful joy of a Kalamata as well. In general, I like food with zest – not the outermost portion of peel on a citrus fruit – but the sparkle of food. That’s generally why I don’t like white sauces and why I’m fanatical about vinaigrettes and anything marinated, brined, salted, or citrused. Speaking of which, I’m in a sparkles phase, in retaliation to the fleeting sunshine and warmth of summer. So if you see me out wearing sparkly eyeliner and a dusting of glittered powder and think “What in the world?” It’s my personal attempt to combat the approaching winter solstice. Laugh at me if you will, but I’m enjoying it. Anyway, this recipe marries all the zest I could pack from the Mediterranean with a penne pasta, but if you’re looking to lighten it up, this would be lovely over leaves of fresh baby spinach instead.
